3 Expert Tips Every Future Destination Bride Should Know (Even If You’re Not Engaged Yet!)
Thinking About a Destination Wedding? Start Here.
Whether you’re already engaged or you’re manifesting that holiday proposal, there’s no such thing as “too early” when it comes to understanding how destination weddings work.
In fact, the brides who get the smoothest planning experience — the best pricing, the best resort options, and the least stress — are usually the ones who know a few key things before they officially start.
As we head into peak engagement season, I’m sharing my top expert tips every week to help future destination brides get prepared, confident, and inspired from day one.
Let’s kick off Week 1 with the three foundational things every future destination bride should know.
Tip 1: Start Your Guest List Early (Yes — Even Now!)
Most brides are surprised to learn how much their guest count affects the planning process — sometimes more than the destination itself.
Here’s why your guest list matters so much:
Your guest count determines which resorts you qualify for
It impacts group perks and upgrades
It affects the types of ceremony and reception locations available
It influences your overall budget
A 10–15 guest difference can change your resort options entirely
You don’t need a final list.
You only need a ballpark number — enough to narrow down your best-fit resorts and ensure they can actually accommodate your vision.
Tip 2: Your Wedding Vibe Will Choose Your Resort
Before you look at destinations, photos, or resort brochures, ask yourself one powerful question:
“What do I want my wedding day to feel like?”
Your wedding vibe does the heavy lifting — and instantly eliminates 80% of resorts that don’t match your style.
Some of the most popular destination wedding vibes I help brides identify include:
Modern & Chic — sleek lines, glass chapels, contemporary design
Boho Tropical — palms, rattan details, beachy textures
Lively + Fun Energy — entertainment, nightlife, upbeat atmospheres
Romantic + Intimate — lush gardens, quiet beaches, boutique resorts
Upscale Luxury — elevated service, gourmet dining, premium suites
Once your vibe is clear, everything else falls into place much faster.
Tip 3: Dates & Availability Matter More Than You Think
Destination weddings follow a different timeline than local weddings — and the most popular dates can book up 12–18 months in advance.
These peak months disappear quickly:
February–April
November
Holiday weeks (Christmas, New Year’s, Thanksgiving, etc.)
Booking early means:
Better pricing for you and your guests
Priority ceremony times
The best room categories (especially swim-outs + suites)
More perks and free inclusions
Less planning stress
Waiting too long usually means settling for what’s left — not what you dreamed of.
Get Ready… Engagement Season Is Almost Here
This is just the beginning!
Over the next month, I’ll be sharing:
Insider planning strategies
How to choose the perfect resort
Budget-saving tips most brides don’t know
The truth about destination wedding perks
Red flags to avoid
Real inspiration from my past couples
If a destination wedding is in your future — now is the time to get ahead of the curve.
And if you’re ready for personalized guidance, resort recommendations, or stress-free planning…
I’d love to help. My inbox is always open.